Bad Boys and Pretty Girls

The fun, the excitement, the thrill of the chase and the major let down. These are things that bad boys bring to ones life, not to mention the unnecessary tears, the pain of heartbreak, the lack of self-esteem and the loss of self confidence. Okay, maybe not all bad boys are the same way and have the same relationship results and I might be slightly stereotyping, but too many time there have been women who have fallen for who they believed to be “the love of their life” to only find out it was just a short lived fun time that has passed. But are the pretty girls any better? They go for the nice cars, large bank accounts and the looks. A bit typical?

Getting into a relationship with someone who has the mentality “I’m god’s gift to the world” can be fun, but that’s not a reason not to be careful and let your guard down and trusts easily. Yes, allowing ones self to indulge in some sinful fun is super exiting and part of life. However, one must remember that Bad Boys or the Super Hot Chicks will deceive and try to get out of things as well as into things by lying. They will even attempt to control you, will cheat and later deny the accusations by making up stories about their ware bouts.

Dates start very innocently with a few expectations. Casual dating lunch during the day or a coffee brake at the park or drinks after work allowing a person to get to know the other a little better to see if the mental attraction is there since the physical certainly exists. However, deliberate dating is more involved where the two do activities together all the time like going to the movies, weekend getaways, introduction to each other’s families.

If the relationship consists of constant casual dates one might ask… why? And how to make the next move? But prior to that, a person must ask the question whether the other person is ready for the next step or if they are just playing the field. What many Men and Women don’t seem to realize is that bother the physical and emotional health suffers when intimate with more than one person. Everyone likes the thrill of the hunt but who wants another hunter in marked territory? People tend to pull back when observing infidelity even if the current engagement is not a committed relationship people seem to lose sight of “no one likes to get played”.

Commitment ready men and women take dating seriously and tend not to want to waste time.

If the man or women remains in the casual dating stage, the other might start to lose interest.

Those who are in it for the thrill of the chase tent to lose interest and move on to the next one when the prize is captured,

So if you find yourself exhausted of going on dates with different people every other night, might be a sign that you are ready for deliberate dating, which could possibly lead to commitment and love, but you would fist have to say bye bye to bad boy or gold digger from hell and supposet good girl.